ingriedient, chemistry which just makes you 'click'

From stranger, to acquaintenance, to friends. but somehow only the rare few become your very best of pals. so how do best friend actually come together?

your best buddy, partner in crime, right arm... you know that special someone who has always been there to share your best moments or support you when you were down. so what actually make a best friend a best friend? haha. its simple : a best friend actually understands you and gets you in a way no once else can. maybe you become best friends when you were in Primary One when a teacher forced both of you to sit together for fighting over the last red crayon. or maybe your best friend starteds of as a stanger who lent you a pen when you forget to bring your pencil case to the exam hall or you two had been sch bus partner since primary 4! no matter how it happened, or how long you know each other, you can always depend on him or her fer laughs when youre in good mood, or for comforting words on days when it feels like the world is mocking you. your best friend is someone you can laugh with. and sometimes, its fun to to have a giggle over the insignificant things in life. say, the guy opp you in the train didnt zip his pants. haha

it's having your best friend by your side to savour the humour in these small incidents or to share dumb inside jokes that create strong bonds and makes hanging out with each other such a BLAST! somehow, you can be in the coolest place in the world but if youre alone, it would'nt be cool anymore. and when you have goo news? nothing makes the discovery of that 85 on your amaths paper sweeter than having someone to share with or even to daydream with your bestfriends about the ONE and imagine all those what IFs stuff.

and of course, life isnt always peaches, HUNNEY, vanilla icecream and other sweet delight for that matter.when things turn sour and tough time make life seem impossible to 'go' through, you always know that you can turn to your bestfriend. wheather you are mourning the loss of a pet!(stupid) or mending yourself after a ungly break up its a wonderful feeling to know that you have someone by your side providing the comfort you oh so desperately need? something like that. someone who can listen, let you cry? haha. give you a hug and find a way to make things better. eventually everything would be OKAY.

oh well. at the end of the day a good friendship is more than just having a good friend. well, i guess friendship is having someone to depend on when you need to at the same time being independent enough not to rely on him or her fer happiness. its about looking at their interest and of cos being considerate to their feelings. haha.

and most importantly a good friendship is impossible without that extra mystery ingriedient, that chemistry, which just makes you click and know that although friendships requires work to stay strong, the best friendship are just meant to be!


"many people will walk in and out of your life, but only true friends will leave footprints on your heart"
eleanor roosevelt